Girlfriend Wants to Attend an Orgy

If your girlfriend wants to attend an orgy, then you are going to need to make sure that you are both fully prepared for what to expect. A lot of people will end up freaking out at the last minute and not being able to participate. This is why it is a good idea for both you and your girlfriend to come together and talk it out so that you can both feel comfortable and have a good time whenever you attend the orgy.


It is usually a good idea for you both to set some boundaries with each other. You may want to tell her no oral and she may want to tell you that you can’t orgasm with anybody else. Whatever your rules or boundaries may be you will need to be sure that you can both follow and stick with these boundaries so that you can keep the trust.


Always be sure that you are both careful and that condoms are always used. Even if she is on birth control she can end up getting an STD if she does not use other forms of protection. Make sure that you can keep her safe and that you can keep yourself safe. Always bring condoms whenever you are going to an orgy. Even if you know that there will be some there.


Go online to try to find where the hottest orgies are in your area. You will need to be sure that you know the area that you are going to and that you feel comfortable with the people that you are meeting.

Edited: May 29th, 2011

What to do When Swinging as a Threesome

When it comes to things that you can do when swinging as a threesome, you will need to make sure that you understand your options. A lot of people that are new to swinging and threesomes will end up getting nervous and awkward because they do not know what to do. You will find that this is something that can all be remedied as soon as you know how to go about having a good time.

Following the Lead

It is usually a good idea for you to follow the lead if you are new to all of this. You will find that whenever somebody else is more experienced you can simply follow their lead. This is a great way for you to feel more comfortable and start off slowly. You can go from there and end up having a really good time whenever you get yourself started slowly enough to understand what is going on.

Take Control

Sometimes taking control of the situation is something that can really end up helping you to have a good time. Think about what you want to do and simply do it. Chances are you have had sex before so just go about it like you normally would. Just try not to leave anybody out. You will find that taking charge can be just enough of an adrenaline boost to get you really into it.

Have Fun

Remember, this is supposed to be a fun and sexy experience. Don’t allow nerves or anything like that to get in the way of the fun that you should be having. A lot of people will end up freezing up and not having a good time because of nerves.

Edited: April 28th, 2011

When a Threesome with Another Swing Has Caused Jealously

If you have just had a threesome with another swinger and it has caused jealousy, then this is actually pretty common. A lot of swingers have had difficulty being able to feel comfortable whenever they have to share the person that they have sex with. Be it a partner or just a person that they occasionally sleep with it can be difficult. It is natural for people to become territorial with a person that they have slept with so be sure that you can keep your feelings and theirs in check.

Talk it Out

It is a good idea to talk it out with the jealous party. Talk to them alone. This is the best way for you to make them feel special and like you care. You can hear them out and try to explain to them why they should or shouldn’t feel that way. Just be sure that you are kind with them, even if you don’t know them very well. Jealousy is something that can be very painful and difficult to go through so the more compassionate you are the better.


It is a good idea for you to set boundaries. You will find that whenever you only do things with a certain person and nobody else that it can really help with jealousy. Whenever you allow your partner to have sex with other people, then it can take away from the specialness of your relationship. Whenever you have something that just the two of you do. it can really do wonders with these feelings that you will have.

Edited: February 10th, 2011