When a Threesome with Another Swing Has Caused Jealously

If you have just had a threesome with another swinger and it has caused jealousy, then this is actually pretty common. A lot of swingers have had difficulty being able to feel comfortable whenever they have to share the person that they have sex with. Be it a partner or just a person that they occasionally sleep with it can be difficult. It is natural for people to become territorial with a person that they have slept with so be sure that you can keep your feelings and theirs in check.

Talk it Out

It is a good idea to talk it out with the jealous party. Talk to them alone. This is the best way for you to make them feel special and like you care. You can hear them out and try to explain to them why they should or shouldn’t feel that way. Just be sure that you are kind with them, even if you don’t know them very well. Jealousy is something that can be very painful and difficult to go through so the more compassionate you are the better.


It is a good idea for you to set boundaries. You will find that whenever you only do things with a certain person and nobody else that it can really help with jealousy. Whenever you allow your partner to have sex with other people, then it can take away from the specialness of your relationship. Whenever you have something that just the two of you do. it can really do wonders with these feelings that you will have.

Edited: February 10th, 2011